The Gown – student newspaper at Queen's University Belfast.

COLUMN: Clarissa Long explains it all

The enormous Queen’s University with its silent students and swapping those short New York minutes for Belfast hours -

I love New York City. I love walking in a group of hundreds of people, like we’re one great pack of sheep. I love the lights, the ambulances, yes, even the ‘New York Minute’ mentality. So why did I come here to Belfast? I wanted a change of scene. I’m someone who definitely likes being in their comfort zone, but I also think it’s really important to get out sometimes and live a little.

BY CLARISSA LONG

The first thing I noticed upon arriving here at Queen’s about a month ago was the size. In New York, I go to Sarah Lawrence College, which is a small liberal arts college that only has about 1,200 undergraduate students. I believe that here at Queen’s there is something like 22,000 students? While for many of the other American students here that doesn’t seem so big, it’s a whole new world for me.
When I walked into the Students’ Union one of the first days of this semester, heard the DJ playing and saw students wandering around and looking at tables with goodies from all over the world presented by the International Student Society, I thought I might have mistaken the Students’ Union for a shopping mall. At Sarah Lawrence, we’re so small that we don’t even have a student centre. Our equivalent would probably be ‘The Pub’. Unfortunately, since the US hasn’t caught on to the fact that having a drinking age of 21 actually INCREASES dumb drunk behavior (such as car accidents), it is really just a café/sandwich place. Everyone congregates there and it’s in the centre of our tiny campus, which you can cross in about 10 minutes.
I was told before I came here that a lot of Irish students don’t like to appear like they are studying when they actually are and that they don’t like participating in class. Hearing this, not only was I not sure whether or not that was true (can’t believe everything you hear!), it was also really hard for me to imagine. In the US we are taught from a very early age to participate freely in discussion in general (we tend to be pretty vocal people). At my school anyway, we actually like talking in class. I’m not so sure if it’s true or just that the set up is different here. For example, I hear that Irish students, before university, aren’t as encouraged to participate in class like we are in the states. Therefore, it would make sense to me that their speaking in tutorial or lecture wouldn’t be as comfortable. I do have to say, though, I still am not used to so much quiet. Sure, we don’t always participate right away, but after a certain point, the impatience takes over.
Besides academics, I have found that the people of Belfast are generally very friendly, yet stick closely to their friends. While this might make it more difficult for international students to break into social circles, I think it also really helps them because it is as if the community is telling them they need to reach out in order to become part of this city.
For the rest of the semester, I intend to do just that and to relax, sit back and enjoy some Belfast hours, instead of New York minutes. I’m finding it’s not as easy as it looks, to take on a different place and a different way of life. There are some universal similarities and differences, but it’s beyond that. What one really finds when they are living abroad is that you are the one who is the same or different. Belfast may be different from New York, but they’re both cities. I’m the one who will change the most, not the place.

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